“Men are from Mars, women are from Venus”, right? While women mostly discuss their problems, needs and expectations, this is not the case for men.
Also, this is due because they’re more insecure in their life, not always knowing exactly what they want.
So basically, a guy won’t ask for anything because he doesn’t even know that he needs it. But, on the other hand, if you “read his mind” and figure out for some present, surprise or just a small everyday thing, he would appreciate even more, because he will also figure out that “Wow, I really needed that”!
Here are the top five that guys would always appreciate and sincerely love, but’ either don’t know it or don’t have the gut to admit it:
When a girl asks for their advice
Men have an overwhelming need to feel they’ve achieved something that matters. To feel useful. To “make the day count”. This doesn’t only regard to their work.
Adding a part of his mind into his partner’s life is also very important to a man. Whether is advice on clothing, what to eat, work related… what matters is that he feels more connected and relevant to his partner.
On the other hand, men are great at advices because they’re solution-oriented and want to fix things. Also, men are “strict to the point” oriented as well, so getting advice from them would be a really good thing to ask for.
Getting a compliment I something every man definitely wants, but will never admit it, because they think that their masculinity will decrease significantly in the eyes of their partner.
Maybe not as equal as women do, but man feel insecure about their looks and how stuff look on them as well. They’re human beings as well!
They work out to look good, they cut their hair and beard even more frequently than a women goes at the hairdresser’s saloon, but they will never come in the open and say that their partner never appreciates the effort they’re doing to look the way they look.
When women explain their needs, but in a way that makes them feel good
If a man loves his woman, he would definitely do anything to make her feel good. Even more, if a man doesn’t think he can make his woman feel happy, he will probably want to stop the relationship.
So if a woman isn’t satisfied with a gift for her birthday, or by how the things in the bedroom are developing, or anything else, instead of keeping silent and feeling repressed, leaving the “elephant in the room”, a woman should find a way to discuss with her man and explain things in a smooth way.
Men’s pride is something which doesn’t cure if it’s hurt. Also, if a woman starts “lecturing” instead of talking, it’s a definit go-go sign for the man, because he feels as a child instead of as a man.
Even though man seem stubborn and would do anything that comes on their mind, they’re also in need of a helping hand and support on their way.
And since they can’t handle failure so well, they definitely need to feel support so they wouldn’t fear of failure like it’s the last thing in Earth. When a woman is proud and supporting, the man feel like doing more and more, but when she’s disappointed – he tends to make the same mistakes out of feeling worthless or angry. That’s really not good for the relationship.
The ultimate driving force of a man – knowing his woman is sexually satisfied from him. Speaking from evolutionary aspect – the male in every species has this characteristic. Though in some species, women fight for their men, and in the world of humans, it’s the opposite way. There is no bigger turn on for man than seeing his woman turned on for him!